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Sub Female (47) looking for Dominatrix Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

After years away from bdsm life in the chat rooms sooo many years ago and various RL/OL encounters since - could I finally have found a new chatsite?!
Oh joy! Let it be true!
Ima grabbin my smart-arse and polishing up my cheeky-side ... let's check this place out!

Profile options have caused some confusion, so:
Am particularly attracted to Dominant Women, however gender isn't important.
i need a strong, firm Dominant i can't 'top'.

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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageNew Zealander
Height165 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShort
Health ConditionNo special condition


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)

Education & Employment

Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

I prefer:Humor, Spontaneity, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchDom/Domme - particularly older, stern. Someone Who will not let me top from the bottom (which i can very cunningly do). Affectionate, fun - but has strict expectations and whose voice/word could/will make me stop short in my tracks. *grin*
Our first dateNipple pinching. Uh-huh, yep. Definitely.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on bySadism / Masochism (S&M), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBreast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Food play, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner



Sexual Activities

Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkDepends on my mood
Night life:Night clubs, Fetish clubs, Dungeon clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

Sex toys:Anal beads, Clitoral stimulator, Fruits/veggies, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Age play, needles, scat ...

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyThese are best discussed with someone personally don't you think?
Fantasy locationMoving car, At a park, Dark alley, Kitchen, Swimming pool, Hot tub, Movie theatre, In a taxi cab

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:Being sent to a room to wait, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon
Pain level:Heavy Marks